In recent years, the wedding scene has witnessed a significant shift away from traditional bridal parties. Gone are the rigid rules and expectations that once dictated who you must have standing beside you on your big day. Instead, couples are embracing creativity and individuality, surrounding themselves with loved ones and those who want to be involved – in whatever numbers or configurations they choose. This might include grandparents, best friends of all genders, or even beloved pets.
If you’re considering breaking free from the classic uniformed lineup at the aisle, here’s a diverse range of eight alternatives to traditional bridal parties to spark your imagination:
Mixed-Gender Bridal Party
The modern wedding party has undergone a significant transformation in recent years, embracing a more inclusive and diverse approach. Gone are the traditional gender-based roles, replaced by a fluid vocabulary that celebrates the beauty of mixed-gender relationships. Terms like ‘best woman’, ‘groomsmaid’, ‘groomswoman’, ‘bridesman’, and ‘man of honour’ have become integral to contemporary wedding celebrations.
This shift towards inclusivity has opened up new possibilities for couples to surround themselves with their closest loved ones, regardless of gender, on the most special day of their lives.
Have No Official Bridal Party
As couples opt for more low-key and personalized wedding celebrations, some are choosing to do away with traditional bridal parties altogether. This decision often stems from a desire to minimize the stress and expectations that come with following certain norms. While skipping the entourage may be appealing, it’s not necessarily about abandoning all support on the big day.
Many couples still find value in having a small group of trusted friends or family members help out behind the scenes, whether it’s assisting with last-minute tasks, being present during preparations, or playing a meaningful role in the ceremony itself. By doing so, couples can enjoy a sense of security and peace of mind, knowing that everything is taken care of, even if they’re not surrounded by an entourage.
Have a Children-Only Bridal Party
The age range for a bridal party is entirely up to personal preference. If you’re envisioning a squad of little ballers, why not invite your nieces and nephews to join in the fun? Or perhaps you’d rather feature your own kids as part of your entourage – after all, what’s more special than celebrating with your closest family members? The thought of capturing those adorable moments with their matching outfits is almost too cute to handle!
Uneven numbers
While it’s common for couples to have differing opinions on the size of their bridal party, there’s no reason why both partners can’t get exactly what they want. Gone are the days when bridesmaids and groomsmen walked down the aisle in pairs – today’s couples have the freedom to create a unique and personal experience that reflects their individual styles and preferences.
There are no hard and fast rules dictating how your wedding party should look, so don’t be afraid to think outside the box and make choices that feel true to who you both are as a couple. After all, your special day is about celebrating your love and commitment to one another – not conforming to outdated traditions.
Have a Bridesman
A one-person bridal party can be just as effective when a man takes on the role of best man or groomsman. It’s entirely up to you whether you want him to get creative with petals and a flower basket, but if he’s game, it’s a great way to add some levity to the occasion.
Your Grandparents or Mum
As you prepare to say your vows, why not give a special role to your grandparents or grant your parents some additional responsibility? Having them by your side as you exchange ‘I dos’ could be incredibly comforting, allowing you to share more of the day with the people who matter most. Imagine having your grandmother’s reassuring presence nearby, or having your mother’s guidance and support throughout the celebration.
Include Your Pets
Ditch the stress of coordinating a group of friends and family on your special day and find a way to include your pets in the celebration – it’s the ultimate unconventional approach! With no rules to bind you, this unique idea lets you relish every moment with your furry companions by your side. And let’s be real, the photo opportunities alone are worth considering!
Hire a Professional Bridesmaid/Groomsman
The phenomenon of hiring a professional bridesmaid has been gaining momentum since 2014, when Jen Glantz launched her business ‘Bridesmaid for Hire’ after receiving 250 requests from around the world. This innovative service allows couples to hire a personal assistant and hype person for the day, complete with the option for a cover story if desired.
While this trend hasn’t yet reached mainstream status in Ireland, there are already some entrepreneurs offering on-the-day bridesmaid and groomsman services, such as ‘The Bearded Bridesmaid’ and ‘Secret Bridesmaid’. This concept is particularly appealing to those planning an elopement or seeking a non-traditional wedding party experience. With the help of these professionals, couples can add a unique touch to their special day.
