While it’s often the brides who get to have all the fun with dress-up, there are some key elements where grooms and groomsmen can really shine. One such detail is the buttonhole or boutonniere, a timeless accessory that adds a touch of elegance to any wedding attire. Typically, these flowers follow the same aesthetic as the bride’s bouquet or wedding decor, but we love to think outside the box (or bouquet) and give the guys’ lapels some extra flair.
To inspire you to do the same, we’ve curated 17 bold buttonhole ideas that will take your groom’s style to the next level.
Dried
Dried flowers offer a unique combination of durability and aesthetic appeal, making them an excellent choice for wedding arrangements. Unlike fresh blooms that may wilt over time, dried flowers can remain vibrant and intact throughout the day. This makes them an ideal option for preserving memories after the special day has passed. Additionally, their long-lasting nature makes them perfect for DIY projects, such as creating boutonnieres or other floral accents.
Furthermore, dried flowers provide a hypoallergenic alternative for grooms with sensitivities, ensuring everyone can enjoy the beauty of the arrangement without concern.
Fresh
The beauty of a fresh bloom is undeniable. From the delicate, fluffy textures of white roses to vibrant flowers that add a burst of color, a perfectly placed flower buttonhole can elevate any outfit. However, it’s essential to handle these dainty decorations with care, as they can be fragile and require gentle attention when attaching them to lapels. For tips on how to pin your flower buttonholes like a pro, we invite you to explore our comprehensive guide here.
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Berries, Herbs and Greenery
For grooms who prefer a more understated approach, there are plenty of alternatives to traditional flowers that still make for stylish buttonholes. Consider pairing thistles, herbs, succulents with petal-like shapes, berries, or grasses with lush greenery. The beauty of these options lies not just in their visual appeal, but also in the unique texture and structure they bring to the arrangement.
A pop of colour adds a welcome touch of whimsy, while also catering to those who may have floral allergies to contend with.
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For gentlemen, the traditional placement of the buttonhole is on the left-hand side, above the heart, pointing towards the left shoulder. To add a unique twist to this classic tradition, consider using a secondary flower from the bride’s bouquet as the focal point in the buttonhole. For instance, if the bouquet features roses and freesia, incorporate the freesia with some foliage for a charming combination. Alternatively, why not break away from traditional floral buttonholes altogether?
There are countless creative options available, making it easy to create a permanent keepsake of the special day. And remember, you don’t have to stop at flowers – there are many other materials and odds and ends that can be used to craft one-of-a-kind boutonnieres.
