As experts in all things wedding, the One Fab Day team has had the pleasure of attending numerous weddings over the years. However, despite our extensive experience, we still find ourselves perplexed by the seemingly endless array of dress codes that couples specify on their invitations. From black-tie affairs to beachside gatherings, each unique code presents a new challenge for us as wedding guests.
The lack of clear guidelines only adds to the confusion, with many couples inventing their own codes (our personal favourite is ‘whatever makes you feel like Beyoncé’).
White Tie Dress Code
When it comes to wedding dress codes, there’s one that stands out as the most formal of all: the white tie or dickie bow for men’s attire. This formal code often includes additional elements like a white waistcoat, a dress coat with tails, and patent leather shoes. It’s an occasion worthy of Leonardo DiCaprio’s Jack character in the iconic film Titanic, where he’s invited upstairs to the first-class dining room for a refined and elegant experience.
When it comes to dressing for this level of formality, men should opt for a classic tuxedo paired with a white tie and a crisp white shirt. The other details can be adjusted according to personal style. For women, a stunning full-length gown in luxurious fabric is the perfect choice.
Formal Attire Dress Code
While formal attire is often mistakenly equated with black tie events, the key distinction lies in the versatility of choices for men. In contrast to the rigid requirements of a black tie event, formal attire allows for flexibility in terms of suit options, where one can opt between a sleek tuxedo or a dark two- or three-piece ensemble.
For women, the possibilities are just as exciting, with the freedom to select from a range of dress styles including chic knee-length or midi-length cocktail dresses, full-length evening gowns, and even dressy jumpsuits or pantsuits.
Cocktail Attire Dress Code
When dressing for cocktail attire, aim for a stylish yet understated look that’s one level down from formal wear. A suit or a well-coordinated trouser-blazer combination will typically do the trick. While a tie is not strictly necessary, it’s always better to err on the side of caution and include one – you can always remove it later if you feel it’s too much. In terms of dress length, most options are acceptable as long as they remain tasteful and don’t venture into overly casual territory.
Smart Casual or Dressy Casual Dress Code
When it comes to dressing for a wedding, versatility is key. Opting for a mix of formal and informal attire can help ensure you’re comfortable while still looking great. During the summer months or at destination weddings, lighter hues tend to be more suitable, but darker colours remain acceptable throughout the year. When deciding what to wear, consider a suit paired with trousers and a blazer, accompanied by a tie if desired. Alternatively, go for a cocktail dress or skirt-and-top combination.
In extremely warm weather, seek out breathable fabrics like linen and cotton that will keep you cool and stylish.
Semi-Formal Attire Dress Code
When it comes to smart casual and semi-formal attire, there’s a fine line between the two. Essentially, both styles convey a sense of dressing comfortably while still looking polished. For couples, this means inviting their guests to dress in a way that’s relaxed yet refined.
In terms of what to wear, the options are relatively straightforward. For men, a suit or a trouser and blazer combination is a good starting point – with a tie optional, depending on the formality of the occasion.
Meanwhile, women can opt for a cocktail dress or a skirt-and-top combo that exudes elegance.
Of course, there are some exceptions to consider. In really warm weather, breathable fabrics like linen and cotton become a priority to keep guests comfortable.
Beach Formal Dress Code
Beach formal may seem like a paradox, but for many couples, it’s the perfect blend of relaxed and refined. The key is to strike a balance between casual comfort and stylish sophistication. So, what does this mean in terms of attire? For gentlemen, a shirt and slacks are the way to go, with the option to add a lightweight linen or cotton blazer for a touch of elegance. If you’re feeling extra adventurous, shorts paired with a shirt and blazer can also be a stylish choice.
For ladies, the approach is slightly different. While it’s generally acceptable to wear beach-inspired clothing, such as a swimsuit cover-up or a sundress, it’s best to avoid anything too casual or revealing. A long dress in a lightweight material, styled with chic accessories, is often the perfect compromise between beachy and bridal.
Garden Attire Dress Code
While beach formal and garden attire share a similar level of sophistication, the setting is undoubtedly distinct. When it comes to dressing for a garden gathering, consider pairing a shirt with slacks or trousers, and feel free to add a touch of elegance with a linen or cotton blazer. Shorts are often acceptable, as long as they’re paired with a shirt and blazer.
For ladies, chic dresses in various lengths are generally suitable, and high heels can be worn unless otherwise specified – though wedges might be a more practical choice if you’ll be spending time on the grass. A photograph by White Cat Studio, featured on One Fab Day, beautifully captures the essence of garden party style.
Casual Dress Code
While it’s tempting to assume that a casual dress code means you can wear whatever makes you comfortable, think again! The truth is, many dress codes originated in an era when a two-piece suit was considered the epitome of relaxed attire. Fast forward to today and what does ‘casual’ really mean? In reality, it often translates to smart, yet understated, fashion choices.
So, what’s the right attire for such an occasion?
For men, a classic combination of shirt, slacks, and blazer is hard to beat. If the weather permits, smart shorts can also be a stylish option. For women, it’s all about avoiding anything too flashy – instead, opt for a sophisticated cocktail dress, sundress, or jumpsuit that exudes elegance without going over the top. Remember, the key to pulling off a great ‘casual’ look is balance and restraint.
Informal Attire Dress Code
When it comes to wedding dress codes, the distinction between informal and casual can be quite subtle. While you won’t technically be out of place in attire that’s more relaxed – think cargo shorts and a crop top – it’s generally best to aim for something slightly more polished.
In terms of what to wear, men can opt for a classic combination of shirt, slacks, and blazer. Smart shorts are also acceptable if the weather permits.
For women, it’s best to avoid anything too flashy; instead, consider a cocktail dress, sundress, or smart jumpsuit.
[Photo by Memories by Magda via One Fab Day]
Festive Attire Dress Code
When considering what to wear to a wedding without a specific theme, it can be challenging to strike the right balance. However, this presents an opportunity to showcase your personal style. A bold colour or print in your outfit can go a long way in making a great impression. If you’re unsure, a suit and tie with a pop of colour is always a safe choice, while slacks and a shirt offer a more understated option if you’ve got things too right.
For women, incorporating some flair through colour, print, sequins or glitter can add an extra layer of fun to the occasion.
Strange, Unusual or Confusing Dress Codes
When it comes to deciphering unfamiliar wedding dress codes, it’s easy to get stuck in limbo. Take ‘funky’, for instance – it could mean a bold, patterned suit or perhaps a vibrant tie. To avoid getting caught out, remember that most guests will opt for caution and stick with traditional attire, such as a suit or dress and heels. The couple’s personal style is also a good indicator of what’s acceptable.
If they’re known for their quirky fashion sense, you can add a touch of creativity to your outfit. However, if they tend towards classic looks, it’s best to play it safe. Regardless, sticking with timeless choices will ensure you fit in without standing out too much.
