Weddings are all about celebrating love and joy, but the dress code can often be a source of stress. Even for seasoned attendees, deciphering what’s acceptable attire-wise can be a challenge. It’s not uncommon to see unconventional dress codes at modern weddings – think black tie with a colourful twist or a beach wedding where the groom dons a tuxedo! And let’s not forget the trend of couples inventing their own unique dress code phrases (we’re fond of ‘Something you can Riverdance in’!).
In light of this, we’ve created a failsafe guide to men’s wedding dress codes. Whether you’re the groom, part of the wedding party or just a guest, our smart and timeless separates are designed to make it easy for you to put together a stylish look that will impress.
But first, our top tip on wedding dress codes!
When it comes to dressing according to a dress code, whether as the host or a guest, the key is to strike a balance between adhering to the rules and expressing your personal style. This can be achieved by incorporating a unique element into your outfit, such as a tailored trouser, a statement tie, or a patterned waistcoat. By doing so, you’ll not only feel more confident and comfortable but also add a touch of individuality to your overall look.
The guidelines below will serve as a starting point, but remember that the most important thing is to enjoy yourself and have a good time. This philosophy is particularly relevant for wedding celebrations where the couple wants their guests to feel at ease and relaxed.
The Groom’s Guide to Dress Codes
Black Tie Dress Code
The most familiar of formal wedding dress codes is undoubtedly black tie, which draws inspiration from men’s attire – specifically, a well-appointed tuxedo paired with a sleek black tie. While the term ‘black tie’ conveys a sense of sophistication, it doesn’t dictate the need for elaborate formal wear like tail coats or evening jackets; rather, it encourages guests to dress to impress.
When interpreting this code, attendees should opt for a crisp tuxedo complemented by a white shirt and either a black tie or dapper dickie bow. A key distinguishing feature of a traditional tuxedo is the contrasting fabric used on the lapel, setting it apart from a conventional black suit.
Black Tie Optional Dress Code
For those who wish to create an air of sophistication without imposing specific attire expectations on their guests, a slight variation on the classic black tie theme is a great option. This style combines the elegance of black tie with a more relaxed approach to dressing, allowing guests to dress according to their personal preference.
When it comes to what to wear, a tuxedo is always a stylish choice if convenient.
Alternatively, a two or three-piece suit can provide a equally refined and put-together look. Take the Peter Ink Scoop Waistcoat from Benetti, for instance – its modern design and sleek features make it an excellent choice for a dressy yet laid-back evening.
Formal Attire Dress Code
When it comes to formal attire, people often mistake it for black tie events. However, the main difference is that with formal attire, you have the flexibility to opt between a classic tuxedo and a dark-colored two- or three-piece suit. The choice of neckwear also opens up, allowing you to select either a traditional tie or a stylish bow tie. Ultimately, it’s all about making a statement while still adhering to the dress code.
Cocktail Attire Dress Code
When dressing for cocktail attire, aim for a stylish yet understated look that’s one step down from formal wear. To achieve this, opt for a suit or a well-coordinated trouser and blazer combination. A tie is not strictly necessary, but if you’re unsure, it’s always better to err on the side of caution and include one. You can always remove it later if needed. For inspiration, consider the Phillip Blue Suit from Benetti – a sleek and sophisticated option that exudes refinement.
Smart Casual or Dressy Casual Dress Code
When it comes to dressing for a summer wedding, it’s often best to opt for a versatile outfit that combines elements of both formal and casual attire. A palette of light hues can be particularly effective at keeping you cool in the warmer months, but don’t worry if you’re attending a destination wedding – dark colours are still perfectly acceptable throughout the year. When deciding what to wear, consider a suit or a trouser and blazer combination as a solid foundation.
While a tie is always an option, it’s worth noting that really hot weather may call for a lighter colour scheme to help keep you cool.
Semi-Formal Attire Dress Code
While the terms ‘smart casual’ and ‘semi-formal’ are often used interchangeably, they both convey a sense of relaxed elegance. In essence, couples are suggesting that their guests dress comfortably yet still make an effort to look polished.
Beach Formal Dress Code
Beach formal: the ultimate paradox or so it seems. Couples often yearn for a relaxed, beachy atmosphere at their wedding, yet they still crave a touch of sophistication. For them, it’s not just about donning flip flops and swimwear; they want to maintain a level of elegance while keeping things casual. So, what does this mean in terms of dress code? Simply put, gentlemen are expected to wear a shirt and trousers – a classic combination that exudes refinement without being too stuffy.
Of course, there’s always room for slight adjustments depending on the weather. In scorching heat, smart shorts paired with a crisp shirt and blazer can be a stylish choice. The key is to strike a balance between laid-back and put-together. A great example of this would be The Charles Blazer in Stone from Benetti – a timeless piece that’s perfect for a beach formal affair.
Garden Attire Dress Code
While garden attire may not receive the same level of attention as beach formal, it’s crucial to dress appropriately for the occasion. When deciding what to wear, consider donning a classic combination such as a button-down shirt, tailored slacks, and a blazer. Many men feel more at ease when adding a tie to this ensemble, allowing them to remove it if they start to feel too formal in the warmer weather.
Even on particularly warm days, smart shorts can be worn with a dress shirt and blazer for a stylish yet relaxed look.
Casual Dress Code
When it comes to a dress code that’s described as ‘casual,’ don’t be fooled into thinking you can just throw on anything. In reality, many dress codes have their roots in an era when a simple two-piece suit was considered relaxed attire. This means that even if the invitation suggests a casual vibe, it’s likely that the hosts still expect a certain level of sophistication from your outfit. A good rule of thumb is to aim for a smart-casual look that’s a step up from everyday wear.
For men, this might mean pairing a shirt and slacks with a blazer, while smart shorts are also an option if the weather permits. If you’re comfortable wearing a tie, it shouldn’t be out of place either. Ultimately, the key is to strike a balance between relaxed and refined, so don’t be afraid to add some stylish touches to your outfit.
Informal Attire Dress Code
When it comes to wedding dress codes, ‘informal’ and ‘casual’ essentially convey the same relaxed vibe – but that doesn’t mean you can get away with showing up in jeans and a T-shirt. To avoid raising any eyebrows, aim for attire that’s slightly more refined.
The key is to strike a balance between comfort and sophistication. A safe bet would be to opt for a crisp shirt, pair of tailored slacks or smart shorts (weather permitting), and top it all off with a blazer.
If you’re feeling confident, a tie can also add a touch of elegance.
The Andrew Blazer in Sky from Benetti is a great example of how a stylish yet understated outfit can elevate your overall look.
Festive Attire Dress Code
When it comes to dressing for an event with a vague dress code, such as ‘summer attire’ or a wedding without a specific theme, it’s essential to strike a balance between being respectful of the occasion and expressing your personal style. For instance, you could opt for a suit and tie featuring a bold colour or pattern that shows you’re making an effort, but not going overboard.
Alternatively, if you’re concerned you might have misread the tone, you can always play it safe with a pair of slacks and a dress shirt.
Unusual or Confusing Dress Codes
When encountering unfamiliar wedding dress codes, it’s natural to feel uncertain about how to interpret them. After all, terms like ‘funky’ can be open to varying interpretations – imagine a guest showing up in a paisley-print bellbottom suit or another sporting a purple tie! To avoid any awkwardness, it’s generally best to opt for traditional wedding attire, such as a well-fitted suit.
However, if the couple’s personal style is more eclectic and avant-garde, you may have room to add some creative flair to your outfit. On the other hand, if they prefer more classic attire, it’s likely better to stick with tried-and-true choices.
As you prepare for groomswear shopping, consider taking a cue from the couple’s own sense of style. If they’re known for their bold fashion choices, you may feel more comfortable incorporating some personal touches into your look.
Conversely, if they tend towards more understated attire, it might be wise to play it safe and stick with timeless options.
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